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Post by Guest Sun May 04, 2014 12:47 am

Okay so I used to ship this guy with one of my friends and all, but I think it's because I don't want to admit that I like the guy. Today, at this party my school had, I admitted to a few of my friends that I like him and what not. I came close to asking him to dance, and he even caught me glancing at him a few times. I want to know if he likes me or not, but I fear I'll be rejected and I've never had a boyfriend before (that is embarrassing. don't judge). I'm so obsessed with this guy; I would follow him sometimes which makes me sound creepy. I even get images of his face in my mind every now and then and I hate it.

So how do I deal with this? How do I tell him I like him? 

This seems really girly. >.<

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Post by Holly Sun May 04, 2014 1:09 am

I've felt the same way before with a guy rofl. I don't offer the best advice but don't ask him out as it might be a little awkward or tell him that you like him, instead try to be really good friends with him and when you finally trust him you can confess to him.
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Post by Ren Sun May 04, 2014 1:12 am

I Kinda have the same problem 
And sorry if my advice doesn't help or anything but I thought I'd try to help you 
Um yeah so first like have you ever talked to him? Like if not then you should start talking 
And I know this may seem like rly hard 
And it kinda rly is tbh but you'll go nowhere if you don't talk so keep that in mind I guess 
Maybe you could find an interest or 
Maybe you play the same instrument, have the same music taste, like the same tv show or something I guess that could be one...? Well I hope you get my point xD 
And maybe you've ever caught him glancing at you also?
That would be a good sign 
You kinda have to work your way up to telling him, you get my point? Maybe you could start a friendship 
and it will be a long way up, trust me xD 
But soon you'll start to see if he has feelings too like 
Does he ever notice your alone and need someone to talk to? 
Does he ever stop to say hi when he passes you through the hallway 
Does he ever comment on like maybe an article of clothing or something like that 
You know those are just some questions that could show he has some interest 
You know or you could be the one to do like any of the following to him 
Yeah
So I hope that might have helped?
I'm such a loser.
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Post by King K Sun May 04, 2014 7:43 am

I have the same problem expect the guy I like knows I like him but what I definitely suggest first is start messaging him and getting to know him a little bit first, it's a very big step to take but it's worth it! Hopefully you guys will become friends and then you can reveal to him you have feelings for him just make sure you do it at the right time (: <33 Hope this helps!xox
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Post by Sadie♡ Sun May 04, 2014 9:58 am

Holly wrote:I've felt the same way before with a guy rofl. I don't offer the best advice but don't ask him out as it might be a little awkward or tell him that you like him, instead try to be really good friends with him and when you finally trust him you can confess to him.

^^ I agree<333
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Post by Ani Sun May 04, 2014 10:42 am

Holly wrote:I've felt the same way before with a guy rofl. I don't offer the best advice but don't ask him out as it might be a little awkward or tell him that you like him, instead try to be really good friends with him and when you finally trust him you can confess to him.

^^^^^ 
i agree with holly.
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Post by Guest Fri May 09, 2014 6:12 am

Thanks, guys.

 The fact that he's shy doesn't help the matter lol

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Post by Ash Fri May 09, 2014 10:10 am

Unfortunately, I am not the one to ask, because I'm not experienced. But I do agree with Holly. 

Good luck (>‿◠)
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